A few weeks ago was the death anniversary of my dear aunt who died of Mesothelioma cancer. Al of us miss her terribly but we know that she is already happy in her place right now because she is already together with her Creator.
So instead of being sentimental here in my post, let me just post my update about my nanny woes.
Yesterday I asked my mom to talked to my nanny to tell her that it is already her last day because she is really driving me crazy already. Last Saturday, she went to bed at 7 PM even if she is not yet finish with Bela. Then Sunday, we woke up around 9 AM and when we went down, she hasn’t even taken a bath yet or she hasn’t even washed Bela’s bottles. She was not able to go to church with us (but I really plan to leave her anyways), because she is still not ready to go. We we’re out for more than an hour and when we came back, that is the only time that she took a bath and wash Bela’s bottles. We had lunch and as soon as she is finish with her lunch, she asked permission if she can go to her sister’s house. She was out for more than thirty minutes and when she arrived I asked her to prepare for Bela’s milk. She gave Bela her milk and then went up to her room and when I checked on her at around 2:00 PM, she was sleeping soundly.
I did not wake her up as I want to test if she will really not feel ashamed of how is she is doing her job, but lo and behold, she went down at around 5 PM which means she took a nap for a good three hours. I talked to her and asked her if she is really like that with her former employer and she told me that at her former employer, she always takes a siesta. I was surprised with her answer and pointed out that her work is to take care of Bela and how can she sleep when Bela is still wide awake. It is good that Howell and I are at home. If she can sleep even if her employer is around then I can just imagine how she will take care of Bela if nobody is watching her. I even told her that she doesn’t even show respect and have the courtesy to at least inform me that she is going up for her siesta. She will just magically disappear and before I know it, she is already sleeping like a log in her room.
This is her usual routine in the four days that she has been with us. I did not hire somebody so I will watch her as she sleeps while either me, Howell or my mom does her job. So we just let her go.
As of now, we still don’t have a nanny. I guess it is less stressful and more peaceful this way. My mom is still not complaining yet (because she has to take care of Bela while Howell and I are in the office) so I will just let it be for the meantime. I am tired of looking for somebody who will really love their job and will show real care for my daughter. Though I still am praying that God will send us our angel and our nanny woes will finally be over.
So instead of being sentimental here in my post, let me just post my update about my nanny woes.
Yesterday I asked my mom to talked to my nanny to tell her that it is already her last day because she is really driving me crazy already. Last Saturday, she went to bed at 7 PM even if she is not yet finish with Bela. Then Sunday, we woke up around 9 AM and when we went down, she hasn’t even taken a bath yet or she hasn’t even washed Bela’s bottles. She was not able to go to church with us (but I really plan to leave her anyways), because she is still not ready to go. We we’re out for more than an hour and when we came back, that is the only time that she took a bath and wash Bela’s bottles. We had lunch and as soon as she is finish with her lunch, she asked permission if she can go to her sister’s house. She was out for more than thirty minutes and when she arrived I asked her to prepare for Bela’s milk. She gave Bela her milk and then went up to her room and when I checked on her at around 2:00 PM, she was sleeping soundly.
I did not wake her up as I want to test if she will really not feel ashamed of how is she is doing her job, but lo and behold, she went down at around 5 PM which means she took a nap for a good three hours. I talked to her and asked her if she is really like that with her former employer and she told me that at her former employer, she always takes a siesta. I was surprised with her answer and pointed out that her work is to take care of Bela and how can she sleep when Bela is still wide awake. It is good that Howell and I are at home. If she can sleep even if her employer is around then I can just imagine how she will take care of Bela if nobody is watching her. I even told her that she doesn’t even show respect and have the courtesy to at least inform me that she is going up for her siesta. She will just magically disappear and before I know it, she is already sleeping like a log in her room.
This is her usual routine in the four days that she has been with us. I did not hire somebody so I will watch her as she sleeps while either me, Howell or my mom does her job. So we just let her go.
As of now, we still don’t have a nanny. I guess it is less stressful and more peaceful this way. My mom is still not complaining yet (because she has to take care of Bela while Howell and I are in the office) so I will just let it be for the meantime. I am tired of looking for somebody who will really love their job and will show real care for my daughter. Though I still am praying that God will send us our angel and our nanny woes will finally be over.
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